Wedding style: Local and low-key For her third trip down the aisle, Gilbert ditched convention and wore a deep red dress to marry Timothy Busfield in a private ceremony at Santa Barbara's San Ysidro Ranch on April 24. “The dress! It was quite a search," Gilbert told PEOPLE. "The moment I saw it, I knew ... and the color spoke volumes. Passion, fire, love: Red says all of those things to me."