updated 01/07/2014 AT 2:20 AM ET
•originally published 01/07/2014 AT 7:05 AM ET
It was all about making a mark on Monday’s Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, as Carlton Gebbia got some new ink while Jamie Lee Curtis and Kyle Richards left an indelible impression on Children’s Hospital Los Angeles.
“I love tattoos because they’re very symbolic to me,” said Gebbia, a practicing Wiccan. “I know a lot of people don’t like them, but I’m not doing it for them, I’m doing it for me.”
Gebbia, who admitted she has four tattoos, the most recent being a “tramp stamp,” added a large pentagram on the back of her neck surrounded by the names of her children as well as the phrase “Blessed Be” in her daughters’ handwriting.
“I’m going to have their writing on the back of my neck for the rest of my life,” said Gebbia, 40. “It’s not a midlife crisis. It’s emotional.”
And painful. Gebbia winced numerous times as her husband stood watch.
“I’m being a p—-,” she said. “Sorry.”