updated 07/18/2012 AT 10:00 AM ET
•originally published 07/18/2012 AT 1:00 PM ET
Her costar Jenni “JWOWW” Farley and her long-term boyfriend Roger Mathews are also considering marriage, Farley tells PEOPLE.
“[Roger’s] dad is dying for us to get married,” she says. “He wants grandchildren. He texts me almost every day for that.”
“There’s no rush … no trophy for being first,” says Mathews, who appears with his girlfriend on Snooki & JWOWW. “But do we want to get married? Oh yeah. Absolutely.”
Living with Mathews “takes a lot of pressure off” the marriage decision, Farley says, since it already feels like they’re married. But in the end, she won’t be satisfied until she gets a special token of their commitment.
“I just want a big ring,” she says. “That’s all I care about – a big ring.”