updated 08/22/2011 AT 11:00 AM ET
•originally published 06/20/2011 AT 6:00 AM ET
Real Housewives of Orange County’s Gretchen Rossi and beau Slade Smiley joined friends at Hard Rock Hotel San Diego’s Intervention Pool Party, where they relaxed in a private cabana and sipped cocktails. At night, the two went to Nobu for dinner before heading home to Orange County. The night before their relaxing day, the reality stars celebrated with a friend at her bachelorette party.