updated 04/04/2011 AT 12:00 PM ET
•originally published 04/05/2011 AT 8:50 AM ET
Country music heartthrob Keith Urban has sold 10 million albums – but at home in Nashville with wife Nicole Kidman and daughters Sunday Rose, 2, and Faith Margaret, 3 months, life’s all about date nights and diaper duty (respectively).
“We just have a normal life, we do normal things,” Urban, 43, says in the new issue of PEOPLE Country. “Family is definitely a priority for us.”
With his sexy swagger and love for his girls, Urban was a shoo-in for this year’s Hottest Guy. Raised in Australia, the singer recalls his first kiss was at age 5 in the first grade.
“I think it was just on the monkey bars. I don’t remember if she kissed me or I kissed her,” he says. “I just sort of went, ‘Oh, well, that makes sense. That feels very natural.’ ”
To stay in shape for his upcoming Get Closer tour, Urban works out four times a week with a trainer and tries to eat “good, clean, quality” food, like protein and vegetables – but confesses to indulging sometimes.
“It’s not rocket science, right? I don’t deny myself anything; it’s calories in, calories burned,” he says. “But I will devour an In-N-Out or Steak ‘n Shake burger every now and then. Love it.”