updated 02/11/2009 AT 2:55 PM ET
•originally published 02/11/2009 AT 3:20 PM ET
“More health and happiness,” says Cox Arquette, 44, who revealed the birthday wish at Monday night’s Beverly Hills benefit for the Entertainment Industry Foundation’s Women’s Cancer Fund.
Aniston’s actual birthday is Wednesday, but she and her pals celebrated Saturday at Aniston’s new Beverly Hills house, where Cox Arquette danced the night away with Sheryl Crow, 47, who shares the same Feb. 11 birthday with Aniston.
“I can’t remember the last time I did that,” Crow told Extra at the benefit, sponsored by Saks Fifth Avenue. “So that was a sign of a good party!”
Although Aniston recently fretted about finding a gray hair, close friend Andrea Bendewald tells PEOPLE that Aniston has never been better.
“Happy on the inside, happy on the outside,” Bendewald says. “She’s always known how to have a good time and really live life to the fullest. I think it’s a state of being. It’s a state of what you think is what you are.”
Reporting by SCOTT HUVER and JENNY SUNDEL
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