07/22/2005 AT 1:00 PM ET
Pamela Anderson says the third time will not be the charm for her and ex-hubby Tommy Lee.
The 38-year-old actress has taken to her Web site to deny reports that she and the Motley Crue drummer are planning to get married a third time.
“I am not engaged to Tommy Lee,” Anderson writes on her official site. “We are friendly, we’re family… but that is not the truth.”
She later added: “I am not getting married … Period.”
The idea isn’t exactly far-fetched: Anderson and Lee, 42, first married in 1995. They divorced in 1998, and then reunited briefly in 1999. The pair have two children together: Brandon, 9, and Dylan Jagger, 7.
Rumors of an engagement circulated after paparazzi snapped photos of the two vacationing together in Hawaii. Anderson, who currently stars on FOX’s Stacked, wrote about the trip (and the photographers) on her Web site, saying, “Just got back from a wonderful family trip in Hawaii … the kids love it there … it was nice to have the family together … we don’t spend much time with Tommy … it was fun … more fun than difficult! We scared a way a few paparazzi … can’t imagine what they’ll come up with.”