updated 06/17/2014 AT 1:00 AM ET
•originally published 06/17/2014 AT 8:25 AM ET
It’s usually not cold in southern California, but it was downright chilly on Monday night’s The Real Housewives of Orange County as Tamra Barney and Heather Dubrow’s feud continued, and Shannon Beador’s marriage faltered.
“The times David and I argue hurt my heart,” said a tearful Beador, who visited a cardiologist due to chest pains from her stressful marriage. “David wrote an email to me. The last portion said he should move out for a while.”
“This is rocking my world,” she continued. “These are words I’ve never heard before. Divorce is not an option. I love my husband, and I want to grow old with him.”
Beador and her husband, who both came from broken families and have battled over everything from cotillions to cold water, spend only a few hours together a day, with David going to bed at 8:30 p.m. – the same time as the children.
“I feel unloved. And I don’t think anybody wants to feel that way,” said Beador. “I feel sad and I feel alone it’s not the way a marriage should be I just want to figure out what I can do to make it better.”
The same could be said for Barney and Dubrow, who took part in an icy segment on the set of Good Day LA that Dubrow co-hosted and Barney and husband Eddie appeared on to promote their fitness center.
“Really? This is how you introduce me? With your head on the ground, tying your shoes?” asked Barney, who was furious that Dubrow didn’t talk to her before the show started and then barely made the start of their segment. “I really felt like Heather was cold It was pretty frosty on set.”